There is one thing you can say about my family. They like Sussex.
Apparently the original Mr Message came over from France about 1500ish, changed his name from Messant, and went for something to help them blend in a bit. Incidentally, there is hardly anyone called Message, so it didn’t work. I digress….
So once in Sussex, the family thought they liked it, so they stayed. Pretty much for 500 years.
My family tree has been extensively researched, by someone who had more time than me, and the places my named line (by that I mean the men who gave me my surname) ancestors were born in were….
Picardie (France), West Hoathly, Wartling, Crowhurst, Brede, Bevelham, Hertfield, Maresfield, Mayfield, Hellingly, Warbleton, Herstmonceux, Wartling, Brighton, Lewisham, Worthing. Then I was born in Shoreham-By-Sea.
Apart from the decade or so living & working in London, until 2002, when I ventured East, The Messages were as Sussex born and bred as it was possible to be.
But I descended from more than one person of course, more than one line. Though Mr Message gave me my name Mum gave me half of my genes. But it’s O.K, as it turns out her family were even less inclined to leave the coast and the Downs than Dad’s.
All in all, of the first 30 people I am descended from, (which takes me back to great, great grandparents and the start of the 19th century) 29 of them were born in Sussex. Of my 32 great, great, great grandparents I know who 19 were, and 18 were born in Sussex.
So when I moved to Suffolk in 2002 it really was a new chapter in my family history. Since then a daughter & son have been born here, and hopefully the name lives on!!
So from 1800 to 2000 all of my ancestors are English. And there is a good chance the majority of those before them were English too, certainly my named line for what is now 500 years. But can I now claim to be really English? Am I not a Frenchman in exile?
I doubt it, as I don’t like the food. They eat some things that just don’t seem to be in the category of food. Things that go into my pigeon holes of ‘Pets’, ‘Garden Pests’ or ‘Dangerous Dairy Products’.
By now surely one of them would have gone back if we missed it that much?
Je suis Anglais!